You might have some point in time think that there no right man for you. Especially not after everything you’ve been through in relationships past. All what you’ve been through in the past has reconfigured your mindset in believing that you can’t get the right part of a relationship. You know, the circumstances have made your love life complex, to say the least.
Sometimes it even difficult to have a deep thought of how you’ll explain how complex relationship had been with you in the past years. Loving someone unconditionally, and buff! you got dumped in process, which makes you feel hopeless.
With everything that you’ve gone through, which have always rolled the wrong side of the coin towards you, you now think having a beautiful relationship is impossible.
You now believe that there’s nothing left in you but disappointment. Disappointment in yourself, others, and love. It feels like everyone’s figured out their life but you. Like, you were the black sheep. Don’t be deceived, you are fine.
I know it seems like life is playing a difficult game with you, but what if I tell you that you are actually doing great?
This is how it looks like, it’s like everyone is doing fine,happy and content. It’s almost like you’re not meant to have anything to yourself easy.
I know exactly how you feel, because I’ve been there just like you are right now, and that’s why I would recommend that you to read this ASAP:
What if you’re not broken? What if I tell you that you’re not beyond repair? Will you believe me? You’re not lagging behind anyone and all the tough things that have happened to you are not your fault at all.
The pressure of what others think about you, the pressure of always being the best at everything that you do, the pressure of being that perfect woman and example to others, and every other pressure that makes you so insecure or unsure of what’s going on in your life.
Let yourself to listen to your own needs. What exactly do you want? What exactly do you need?
Be true and sincere with yourself. Set a goal and work on it.
Let me ask you this, what exactly is stopping you from having the life that you want so badly? Is it relationship, your looks, your personality flaws?
Whatsoever it is manageable if you want. You have the power to reconstruct or reshape whatsoever that you want out of life or in yourself. Yes, you have the power to do that if you want. It all depends on YOU.
You can’t give up now. It’s too late to go back now.
To attract the man or woman of your dreams, all you need is to be the woman of your dreams. You cannot get what you want unless you appreciate what you have. You cannot get the man of your dreams unless you appreciate and love yourself.
A quick one moving forward, do everything that makes you beautiful to you.
Better yourself on the inside as well as the outside. The two are connected.
It’s not about being superficial, it’s about loving and taking care of what you have. It’s about protecting those precious features about YOU.
How can you expect someone else to see your true beauty when you are not liking or wanting the beauty yourself? You are always hiding it under a veil of insecurities.
Insecurity is beautiful killer.
You know, life’s too short for that. In the end, we’re not here for so long. Embrace all the things life has given to you properly. Instead of wanting more, have you used all that you have? That’s the quest that should keep you moving from henceforth.
The most irresistible thing about a person is being real. It’s just like accepting what you have with great content and being in accordance with those features.
Nothing can trouble you once you’re at peace with yourself. The relationship you want is waiting for you to love yourself so you can truly encounter it.
Before you can get that happy and peaceful relationship, you’ll need your happy self.