Whenever he goes cold on you, you find yourself so disturbed all of a sudden. You wonder why, you brood, and you assume he is definitely seeing someone else. You really want to be with him whatsoever. You have a lot of questions, you asked yourself where you have missed it. You kept saying it to yourself, we have been good so far. The fact that you don’t want to lose him is driving you crazy and you are so desperate to get him back for good no matter what. And that is why I came up with this article. I have carefully set aside somethings you can easily and simply do to get him back without fail. Are you ready?
#1 – RUSH
Don’t try to rush into solving the situation. I know you want to get him back as soon as possible but the truth is that it doesn’t work that way. You need to be patient, use this time for good. Seize this opportunity to make him love you more instead; how do I mean? Instead of rushing to find out what went wrong initially, you have to react to the situation in the opposite. Remain indifferent as if everything is fine, do not let him know you noticed he has changed. Be the wonder woman that every man wants. Be cool enough and be patient.
#2 – PLAY WITH IMAGINATION
You need to make him jealous. Create an imaginative new lover; how do I mean? Fake it like you are seeing someone else, but you don’t have to overdo it as it can also put an end to the relationship if the love you both share is not strong enough. Give him enough room to be jealous of someone who doesn’t exist in the first place. Do it as if it was very real, talk, gist, laugh over the phone, you can even gist with a male cousin of yours, make sure it looks real as possible as you can. Let him remember your value, let him see that men are after you, he will eventually run back at you.
#3 – WITHDRAW
As he goes cold on you, you also have to return the favor by going cold as well. It is not a competition but a revival to get him back. If you go cold on him, it will give him a sign that he doesn’t have full authority over the relationship. Having a kind of assurance about something can make one relent, you end up stop doing what you normally do and everything ends up bad. But whenever you know everyone wants to get that which you have from you, you step up and work more in protecting it. That is how it works.
#4 – REDUCE-IT
Your care for him should be minimized if you truly want to successfully execute the plan of getting him back. Withdraw your care a little bit as possible as you can. I am not asking you to stop caring for him, all you have to do is reduce it. simple! You have to rest your emotions a bit and use your brain.
#5 – GET BUSY
Get something you have to spend time doing, as this will increase your chances of getting him back soon. If you are busy, you won’t even notice him going cold in the first place, you won’t be needy, you have to get yourself occupied. Try not to show that you are displeased whatsoever.
#6 – ASK HIM
At times, depression might be the reason why he goes cold, he might as well be going through a difficult time and doesn’t want to talk about it, and which made you assumed he was going cold. What if you are wrong? Ask him if he is fine if you both are the best of friends aside lovers he will tell you everything. Do not assume, ask him instead.
#7 – ENCOURAGE HIM
What if he is scared of the future? Encourage him and stop nagging. Tell him everything will be fine, tell him I will pray for you and support you. Encouragement might go a long way if #6 was true.
#8 – WAIT
Be patient enough to wait for him to go back to normal. Do not rush the process, let him make the right decisions for you both. He equally wants you as much as you want him back. He also loves you as much as you are in love with him. Let him get through those hard times and run back at you at will.