Welcome back, now we are going straight up to the next thing.
The question is “what happens when what you said is not from your heart?”. You probably know by now that humans act mostly on emotions and not with our brains when it comes to our relationship or love life.
You gave those replies yourself, right? even though they were not from your heart, but let’s look at it from another perspective, what if your partner said those words because of point b or point c in Part 1 (point b and c is actually in Part 1 of this series, read to understand) then, what’s really going to happen? Your response broke two hearts already.
Now at this point I really need to ask you, did you really mean what you said as a reply?
IF YES, THINGS TO DO:
#1 – Do not reverse your response, stick to it.#2 – Don’t Regret anything later
#3 – Walk out that instance
#4 – Move on with your life
AND IF NO, THINGS TO DO:
#1 – Immediately cry out
#2– Take back your words by apologizing and making him understand that you replied out of anger
#3 – Draw him close (hug him)
#4 – Tell him how much you love him, and how important he is to you and why you can never and would never lose him
WHAT TO DO IF YOUR PARTNER DID NOT TAKE YOUR PLEA AND MEANT THE BREAK UP
Now did your partner actually meant what he said before you gave your response? Now we already emphasize on point b and c, so we come back to point A
He meant it: if he actually meant it and you also agreed, that means you both are tired of each other. Very well then you guys just need to go your separate ways.
But what if he meant it and you said fine out of your anger and not from your heart. OH NO! What to Do? Now you don’t need to waste more time, you need to make him realize you didn’t mean those replies and immediately apologize. Now back to the topic, what if he didn’t take your plea? The first thing I want you to know is that you are not important to him as he was to you, I understand this is heart breaking, but then what next:
#1 – Baby please cry it out,
#2 – Clean your tears,
#3 – Take a shower,
#4 – Eat a lot (sweet might be of help),
#5 – Make yourself busy and occupied and never stay idle or isolated,
#6 – Dress up, look beautiful, meet with new people,
#7 – Most importantly put on a big smile,
#8 – Above all move on with your life.
Doing the above-mentioned things; now you got yourself a chance to become a treasure in someone’s hands before you treasure him back. Work on your value, standard, and beauty, you will surely find the best man that will make you happy.