DOES HE OR SHE SAY THOSE WORDS TO YOU?
DO YOU GET HURT WHEN YOUR PARTNER SAYS THOSE WORDS?
YOU ARE DEFINITELY EAGER TO HEAR THOSE WORDS?
You know, when a relationship is going smoothly, fine and sweet, there are always haters of that kind of relationship. When you and your partner get into a misunderstanding or a misconception or when you both go through a little hardship does your partner actually use to say those words? How do you take them? Do you get hurt or otherwise?
I know you are so anxious to find out what I’m actually driving at, but before I actually tell you those words. There are possibly two-three actual reasons he or she says it.
Point A: He or she meant it
Point B: Just wants to know your reaction
Point C: He or she does not want you to know how much they love you. (it’s a bad idea though).
Point A: Now, when he actually uses it and meant it. Might probably be a lot of reasons behind his or her sudden decision in which at the moment he or she doesn’t want to change his or her mind. Let me say he or she meant it; tired of you and the relationship.
Point B: Seconded, when he wants to see the way you want to react based on what you’ve heard. In any relationship, actions and reactions are determinants of virtually everything. It might be because he or she still has a little doubt about you and wants to know if your love were true in the first place.
Point C: Thirdly, when he or she wants to play the game of “I don’t want him or her to feel his or her self or know how much I love him or her”. Which implies that he or she doesn’t mean it. Those words aren’t coming from his or her heart.
The thing is when you and your partner get into a misunderstanding or whatever it might be and one of you gets to say “Maybe we should take a break”. The three points out listed above might be the reason for those words. Now, what reaction do you give him or her when you get to hear those words? Are you going to be sad?
Will you feel burdened?
Will you feel hurt in the heart?
There are possibly two good amazing reactions you can actually give those words (Maybe we should have a break). Would you react like “okay! Fine! When you have said it, I was also tired of this relationship, let’s take a break?”. Did you actually let your fist take over your heart? Fine!
YOUR REACTIONS MIGHT HAVE TWO MEANINGS;
#1 – What you’ve agree to might be either because you are very upset and you probably went off out of your own will based on what your partner have said or
#2 – Might also be because you really wanted to be out of the relationship for good.
Now, the question is what happens when what you said is not from your heart?