According to the advice of relationship experts and psychologists, there are some very different ways in which you can determine whether your relationship is approaching premature, and it all depends on how your partner really treats you. These signals can also indicate a certain lack of seriousness and commitment on the part of your partner in the relationship. And to delve into this theory, scientists have been able to identify certain keywords or phrases that could damage a relationship to the point that things are irreparable. You must make a point to really pay attention to the things your partner is telling you. He could be giving you clues about the sad state of your relationship. If you notice your man telling you these seven things, then he’s very likely not to love you anymore.
1. “You can’t expect me to explain everything.”
Love is patient. That’s a basic principle of love. And that’s why it’s really vague if you’re with a man who’s not patient enough to talk to you and explain your thoughts and feelings to you.
2. “Your problems shouldn’t be my problems.”
In any kind of romantic relationship based on trust, respect, and love, there must always be a sense of reciprocity. That’s why couples with solid relationships share both their triumphs and their defeats. One’s success is the success of the relationship as a whole. But if he’s distancing himself from you just because you’re being troublesome, he may not be in love with you after all.
3. “Find someone else if you don’t like what you see.”
When a man threatens you with finding someone else, that’s never a good sign. If he just doesn’t think it’s okay that you have a different opinion or a dissident thought, he may not really be in love with you after all. A man who is really in love with you will always want to hear what you have to say, even if he disagrees with what he himself is saying.
4. “I really don’t trust you.”
Be very careful to be in a relationship with a guy who’s unable to trust you. You should just really be in a relationship with someone who’s gonna be willing to trust you. There’s no way you two can have an intimate romantic relationship if you can’t find mutual trust in yourselves. You might think he’s just being sweet, protective or territorial. But that’s not the case. It is perfectly possible to remain all those things without compromising trust in the relationship.
5. “I don’t know. Do what you feel.”
Disinterest is much worse than disagreement. And that’s an idea you’re just gonna have to wrap. It’s much better if your man just doesn’t agree with you instead of him just not being interested. If your man doesn’t agree with you, that proves he cares what you’re trying to ask him. And that proves that he has some kind of investment in your life. He knows he has something to say and he wants to make the most of it. But if you are simply not interested, it means you will no longer be so involved in playing an active role in your life.
6. “Stop thinking too much about everything.”
If your man tells you you’re just thinking too much every time you try to bring something in, then there’s really something wrong. That means they’re not really invested in what you have to tell them anymore. This shows that they find your thoughts not interesting. And when that’s the case, it usually means he’s just fallen in love with you. It may actually show that his feelings for you have dissipated and that is why he no longer takes your thoughts and opinions seriously.
7. ”I don’t love you anymore.”
And if you have the luck (or bad luck, depending on how you look at it), you’re going to have a partner who will be sincere and honest with you about the fact that he’s no longer in love with you. And while this might be devastating news to hear, it might actually be a blessing in disguise. It’s much better for a partner to tell you that they don’t love you anymore, instead of having a relationship with you, even though they don’t really have feelings for you anymore. They’re just prolonging the inevitable demise of your romance. And both will end up wasting time.