An Alpha knows exactly what she wants, how she wants it, and she will not apologize for it. She believes that her attitude is right, but she is not a stubborn child who will always impose her own opinion no matter what happens.
An Alpha woman is reasonable and fair. A real alpha woman will look at both sides before making a decision. She is true to herself.
All women want to be her, and men want to go out with them. And as usual, haters will hate mainly because they are intimidated by them and they feel that in most things, alphas are better than them. But the choice is up to them.
Either they can silently hate them and do nothing about it, or they can try to work harder and be better because…
You weren’t born an Alpha. You become an Alpha.
Alphas are leaders. Some people are born with leadership and some aren’t, but that doesn’t mean you can’t change. We change every day. Our experiences, good and bad, try to teach us lessons that we can learn to become better and better. But only if we want to.
If you are reading this article, chances are that you are indeed an alpha woman, but read these signs anyway and see for sure:
1. You’re not afraid to be alone.
You are not afraid of being single because you are aware of the fact that you are the person who matters most in your life and that you do not need a man to make you feel important. You won’t be broken and crying for the rest of your life if he leaves you. You’ll be in pain because that’s normal, but not for long.
You’ll pick yourself up and get on with your life. Maybe you will catch up on your reading, start a hobby or try something new that you have long wished for. The point is, life goes on and so do you.
2. You stand by your mistakes
You are not stubborn, and if you make a mistake, you will admit it. You’ll admit it because that’s what strong women do. They say when they’re wrong. A lot of people have the wrong idea when it comes to alpha women. They think alphas are incapable of admitting a mistake or apologizing.
But the truth is far from it. In fact, alphas are so comfortable in their skin, it’s no big deal to admit they were wrong. They’re so mature, and that’s why they’re doing so bloody great.
3. They’re versatile and you know it.
You can do pretty much anything, and all your friends will call you first before they call anyone else if they have a problem. From plumbing to manicure emergencies, you’re the girl to call.
It’s not about you being a know-it-all who sticks her head in everybody’s business. It’s just that you’re willing to learn and not afraid to get dirty to get the job done.
4. You call things by their right name
A true Alpha calls a spade a spade. It doesn’t close its eyes to things it doesn’t want to see. She faces all her problems because she’s not afraid to face them.
She knows she’s going to solve them because she’s going to try to find the best solution. She never gives up. So if a man wants to be with her, he has to stand his ground and face reality, just like she does.
5. You are a team player
Although you are more than capable of doing things on your own, and you do not need anyone’s help, you are willing to do so when teamwork is needed. You know how to work with others and how to listen to what everyone has to say.
You always support your teammates and you stand behind them when something bad happens. Everyone would kill to have you on their team.
6. You are aware that you do not know everything.
You are not a know-it-all and you don’t act like one. You know there’s always room to learn new things. People learn new things all their lives.
They always strive to learn new things and therefore you are aware that you don’t know everything and that saves you from being arrogant.
You know that you can learn from others and that’s why you let them guide you, because even though you are good at it, it doesn’t mean that nobody else gets the chance to try.
7. You never give up
You know things aren’t over until you say they are. As long as you keep fighting for what you want, there’s a chance you’ll make it.
And even if you can’t, you won’t give up. You’ll keep trying over and over until you do. That’s your greatest quality.