The worst thing about people who make you feel unwanted is the way they motivate you to feel unworthy.
No one should ever question their own worth.
Just because someone does not know how to love you does not mean that you are unlovable.
I know that terrible feeling. There you are, and there he is. It seems you can’t reach him no matter what you do.
It feels like you’re invisible, he doesn’t even see you. Does he even care about you? Would everything you do make him wink if nothing else did? It doesn’t seem like it.
The person who’s the biggest part of your life doesn’t seem to care if you’re even there. At this exact moment, you don’t matter.
In his eyes, you seem so small. You want to be small in reality. You wish to withdraw so deeply into yourself that no one can see you.
How can you even exist with so little value you carry? This is how a woman feels when her husband makes her feel unwanted and unloved.
You must run – run and never come back. Don’t think twice, because you leave nothing behind but the pain.
Your husband should appreciate you, protect you, care for you. He should love you and recognize when he does something that makes you feel you are not seen.
When he has brought you to a point where you no longer see yourself, that is the point of no return. Go now. Do not fall into the trap and try to make yourself more perceptible to him.
Do not bend over backwards to get his attention. You don’t need it anymore.
Whatever you do at this point will not help you in any way. You will only feel worse if you know that even if you make every effort to get him to notice you, he still won’t.
You’re not the one to blame. It’s not the things you did or didn’t do that made him act that way. That’s why you’re not the one who can change it either.
The only thing you can do is to walk away while you still have time to return to your self-confident, healthy, powerful self.
Don’t waste your time trying to get back to something that you both might have had before he started to become blind to everything about you.
There is no going back.
If you stay, you will fall deeper into the mud every day. Every morning you will feel weaker, more tired and sadder than the day before.
From day to day there will be nothing left of the person you once were. You will become a shadow of the girl who once existed.
The girl who appreciated herself and the world. The girl who loved life, loved herself and knew how to spread love wherever she went.
Grayscale photograph of a man standing at the side of the bridge with a blurred person in the distance
She’ll be gone forever.
It is said that the most precious thing about our loved ones is never what they are as people, but the wonderful way they make us feel.
If he makes you feel like nothing, there is nothing about him that you could regret if you leave him.
But that girl… She’s worth it. Everything about her is worth it. Don’t leave her behind, that’s something you’ll regret. She’s the one you should be looking for. She’s the one you should protect.
Now go. It won’t be easy, but you will heal. Escape from him will be your starting point on this journey where you will regain your strength and confidence.
Don’t let him make you think that you are the one who is not lovable. Just because a dark cloud hangs over his head, preventing him from recognizing your worthiness, does not mean that you are unworthy.
Allowing him to make you feel unwanted and destroy your self-esteem is the worst thing you can do to this amazing girl.
He was a bump in the road, and he slowed you down, but don’t let him stop you forever.
Everything he ruined can be rebuilt. Once you realize that you shouldn’t question your value, things will fall back into their rightful place.
This is where you learn never to let it happen again. There will always be people who will not recognize your value – the most important thing is not to let it get to you.