You will want to accept the fact that body languages are sometimes so vital for single ladies out there looking out for a partner. However, some men will take a long time to actually come out plain with you. Some will not tell you directly that they are into you, I’ve seen a lot of that. Situations where he is going to be advancing towards you with his actions before he knots the tie.
Men tend to show their feelings through their actions more than women. On the other hand, women like to talk more and take action less. That’s the way it goes!
You will want to agree with me that men bond with actions/activities while women bond with words or call it communication. You can easily find out if a man is into you with his mere actions towards you, unlike women where you cannot tell if she is fond of you with her mere actions. You will want to agree with me that women are so complicated compared to men.
There are some things that you might be thinking but they are not actually signs that he is into you. You don’t want to be played, used, and get dumped. That is why I’m going to help you differentiate between a man that is into you and has come to stay and otherwise.
Body Language Of Men or Guys That Are Into You
1. He Can’t Help but Smile
There is this happiness that will overshadow him whenever he is with you because he has plans to take it further with you. Obviously, he just doesn’t want to make you feel bad. Whenever he is with you, he wants you to feel better and happy as well. You can’t fake it! When you like someone, you can’t hide it. Listen, don’t let the feeling of you liking someone to make you as a lady push you off the point here. You might not be able to see clearly the person that likes you when you are already fond of the person. You can daydream, or hallucinate that someone is into you as well. It is possible. But when a man like you first, you will know it at a distance.
2. He Finds Ways to Touch You
When a guy likes you, you’re a magnet and he can’t resist the pull. He just wants to touch you with every opportunity that he has. He may put his hand on your shoulder, on the small of your back, brush your cheek, touch your knee, and so on. It’s not even conscious most of the time, he can’t help it!
He may find “innocent” ways to touch you that aren’t as overt as gentle caresses- maybe a thumb wrestling match, or a high-five that lingers a little too long, or any other game that involves a little touching. His touches can also be a way of testing the waters and seeing how you respond, which might tell him if you’re interested.
3. He looks at you significantly.
Believe it or not, it is very difficult for a guy to look into the eyes of the girl he likes.
If you catch him staring at you and he immediately looks back when you realize it, that means he is into you.
Also, if he looks at you and after a while winks, that is a proven sign he wants something more than friendship from you. Now, the rest is up to you if you are going to look back or let it go.
4. He Stares At Your Face
There can be only one thing on his mind -He admires you a lot, he thinks that you are so beautiful, and possibly, he might be thinking of a scenario where he kissed you.
One of the above is true, you can believe it or not. Now, it is also up to you to make his dream come true or not.
5. He Wears Nice Clothes To Impress You
If you have a friend who wears nice clothes whenever you are around, it can only mean these things – He or she is trying to impress you, They are attracting you to want them, They want you to see the good side of them only, They want you to compliment them. If you have a friend that dresses up, who pays a good attention to the way that he looks whenever you are involved, it can only mean that he wants you more than a friend. He wants you to see him as a man and not as a mere friend.
6. He Is Always Careful
Because he doesn’t want you to see his weakness or weaknesses, he is always careful around you. He doesn’t want to make any mistake. Men are very interesting creature just like women. Most men believe that women will not want them when they know their weaknesses before they go into a relationship with them. But on another side of it, you will come across a lady who wants to be the complement of another guy. Listen, we all act based on our understanding. But if he is the type that thinks like not wanting the girl that he likes know his weakness, he will definitely be careful around her.
Have you noticed any of these signs? If yes, are you going to reciprocate?