It’s not that easy to accept a bitter truth that your partner is a cheater who is cheating on you. Because you don’t really expect them to hurt you in any way that you can imagine, it shocks you when you find out about it and even painful when you confront them and the truth was denied. You know for sure inside of you that they are definitely keeping something from you and the relationship has lagged from how you both started in terms of care and love, but you keep fighting off that strange feeling. You tell yourself that it absolutely nothing that your mind might be playing some kind of game with you. And you might be right, but what if you are wrong and those feelings persist? Then you should do something about it because your partner might be cheating on you if you start to notice the following listed points:
1. They feel as if you are interrogating them
They try to make you feel so bad when you ask them about it, they are so irritated because of your simple inquiry. You might want to give it another shot but it continues, they are always irritated all the time. Maybe they are cheating on you if your simple question cannot be answered by them. It’s a clear sign that your partner is hiding something from you, you might be making a big mistake if you ignore it.
2. They ignore your calls when they are out
Recently, they refuse to pick up your calls and do not find any need to get back to you. There’s no genuine reason behind it or might even be making it work all the time, or friends and family. You’ve suddenly become a douchebag. Not calling you back simply means that they comfortably forgot to do so. The change can be so obvious. The person who wants to talk to you every time is no more comfortable talking to you anymore. It’s time you table the topic and talk about it with them.
3. They avoid seeing you Sure!
Some people get so busy but can’t be all the time. There is a quote that says “If it is important to you, you will find a way but if it is not you will find an excuse.” This is very true, they tend to conveniently create time for others and not you. The scale of preference has changed overnight. It is so obvious that your partner is seeing someone else. You need to start paying attention to that new friend they keep on meeting with.
4. They won’t allow you to use their phone
It is quite true that nobody wants to have their privacy invaded. Having said that, if they are completely sensitive about their phones, it can be true that they are hiding something from you. And what else do you think they are hiding on the phone? You won’t hear that from me! Think it over yourself.
5. They constantly lie
Lately, you don’t get any attention from them, but when they give you that attention, it’s all on a platform of fibs and lies. Be it about what has been keeping them busy, where they have been lately or who they’ve been meeting with, the only answer you get just lies. You should never allow anyone to treat you like a waste bin, maybe it’s time you confront them. Don’t be afraid to tell them about your findings of the lies.
6. The sudden makeover
They are all of a sudden doing their hair differently, changing wardrobes and going to the gym just because they want to look better than before. And it is not even for you and you already know that, who would believe that after so much of ignoring and lies? They do not give a dam if you notice the change or you don’t. And obviously, you know very well the person that you are dealing with. You should already know that there’s another person in the picture.
7. You perceive strange smell combinations on them and it is not their own alone
Have they been getting this smell lately? You would find out that they are not trying to change the way they smell, it’s obviously another person’s smell. More also, this new smell is meant for the opposite gender and that’s not yours. What else are you waiting for? He or she is seeing someone else. You might fail to notice these indicators in them even when they are with you. You don’t feel okay about doubting their loyalty. Try to trust your instinct. If it keeps telling you that your partner is cheating on you, it might be very true. Humans are the most powerful creature created by God. We have the inner ability to detect even when those things are done behind our backs.
Don’t be afraid to tell them, don’t be scared of hurting them when it affects you as well mentally and emotionally. You don’t have to ignore these signs because you are being cheated on. If you don’t act fast, you would be dumbed the worst way.