Most women do not consider love as something fleeting in their lives. They fight long and hard to keep love alive and to make things work. But it’s not just up to them. Love without reciprocity and without care will inevitably fade.
They rarely fall out of love suddenly. For most women this is a gradual process, which they are usually not aware of. It creeps up on them bit by bit, once they have exhausted every atom of their power in someone who does not see them for what they really are.
When I look at my past relationships, almost none of them ended for any important reason. There were millions of tiny ones that accumulated over time and killed all the love that was there. As I researched the matter thoroughly, I realized that many women share my opinion. And although there are many reasons why women fall out of love, here are the most common:
1. Love fades away with tears…
Tears are powerful. They really do have that cleansing effect on your eyes, and they help you to take off those rose-colored glasses that most of us wear when we fall in love. Constant disrespect, lack of attention, mistreatment, and even abuse are tolerated for the sake of love. But as soon as a woman realizes that she cried during the better part of her relationship and that she can’t stand all the bad things anymore, she is gone and won’t come back.
2. Broken trust
The fastest way to lose a woman is through lying and cheating. If a man is capable of this at the beginning of a relationship, imagine what he will be like later. If we know anything about love, we know that its foundations are based on trust. And when that foundation is shaken, it is almost impossible to repair it.
3. They’re tired of being at the bottom of their priority list.
This is what most women easily and repeatedly forgive until they just can’t anymore. They keep thinking, “So what if he canceled our plans at the last minute, so what if he doesn’t send a text message all day, so what if we only see each other once in a blue moon, so what if I can’t remember the last time he said something nice to me or made me feel important”. There are so many other “what if”, so many times they look over something and forgive despite all the pain. One day they cannot forgive anymore because none of the apologies count anymore and all their efforts were in vain when a man gambles away their love.
4. The chemistry does not exist
When the honeymoon phase is over, it is normal that the spark is not as strong as it used to be, but you should still feel some connection to your partner. Many women no longer fall in love because their boyfriend is now just their roommate. He becomes someone they live with, but nothing more. They cannot help but feel that they are choosing a life without love. The chemistry, just like love, can disappear without a common effort.
5. Suffocated by jealousy
Love cannot be forced by women by jealousy. If your partner can’t stand to be without you for more than a few seconds, if he looks after you every minute of the day and can’t stand that other men are around you (or God forbid, if you have some male friends, he would totally freak out), then this can be very exhausting. Not to mention that relationships with overly jealous people are extremely unhealthy. No matter how much love and understanding a woman has for a man, in time he will stifle all that with his jealousy.
6. Worn down by constant fighting
If two people don’t fit together, they’ll fight over everything. Most women want to try to work things out, find common ground, and make compromises. But if their partner does not share the same opinion, if he is more interested in making a good argument about whether he will win or lose a fight, he will lose his wife’s love in the process.
7. Feeling invisible
This is one of the most common deal-breakers for women. They give everything they have and everything they are in a relationship, but their efforts go unnoticed. They are taken for granted and underestimated. They lack support, affection, attention, and true love from their partner. If everything in a relationship is one-sided, who could blame a woman for losing love?