You have met a man you really like, and you see that he is not indifferent to you either. But you cannot say what exactly he has planned for you when it comes to you, no matter how hard you try to read between the lines. And there’s nothing unusual about that. In the modern dating world, it’s hard to tell what someone really wants to do with you.
It’s not as confusing to find out if a man likes you as it is a challenge to realize how much he likes you.
You never know where you really stand – you can’t tell if a guy just wants to sleep with you, if he has a serious relationship in mind or if he just has a pointless crush on you.
So if you have doubts about any of these things, here are 5 signs that show you that you are more than just in love with him.
1. He tells you that you’re reassuring him
When a man tells you that you are reassuring him, at first you do not like what you hear. You’re worried that he’ll tell you that you’re not interesting enough and that you’re boring him.
But think again! If a guy you’ve seen lately has told you that he feels peaceful around you, that’s one of the biggest compliments he can pay you, because it’s one of the signs that you’re more than just a crush on him.
It does not mean that your presence does not make him feel butterflies in his stomach, and even if it does, it is not a bad thing.
He sees you as his refuge from all life’s problems, as his haven, and that is one of the nicest things a man can say to a woman.
2. He likes your body and your soul.
Let’s be honest. When we meet a person of the opposite sex, the first thing we pay attention to is his physical appearance. This is especially the case with men.
No matter what they try to tell you, the first thing that came to their minds when they saw you was to sleep with you. And there’s nothing wrong with that – that’s just our primary instinct. But when a man looks past your body, it usually means something more.
Don’t freak out over nothing – it doesn’t mean that he’s not attracted to your body, it just means that you are more than just a piece of meat to him, and you should be flattered by that.
3. He asks for your opinion
Most men do not like women they have just met because of their opinions and attitudes. They do not want to strengthen your ego and think that it puts you above yourself when they consult with you.
But if a man you have just met obviously appreciates your opinions and everything you have to say, that is one of the signs that you are more than just a crush on him.
He appreciates and respects you not only as his date or potential girlfriend but also as a woman and as a person. He considers you both as equal and does not let your brain intimidate him.
4. Sex is not a priority for him
We all want to have sex with the people we are attracted to, and if a man tells you he hasn’t even thought about sleeping with you, he is lying to your face.
But if a man doesn’t insist on doing something that you’re not ready for, and if he doesn’t act like he just wants sex, it’s very likely that he thinks of you as more than just a crush.
This man respects you and therefore has respect for your boundaries. He is also happy just to be with you and he knows that there are other levels of intimacy than sex.
5. You two have meaningful conversations
If you are just getting to know a man, your whole conversation will probably be based on sexual innuendo and be sexually connoted.
You two will flirt all the time, sending each other mixed signals and asking each other flirtatious questions. But with this guy everything is different.
He’s not playing mind games with you and you’ll feel that he’s really honest about most of the things he says.
You both feel free enough to talk about the other’s mistakes without the fear that the other will run away.
You both have meaningful communication that is not just based on a relationship or sexual issues or small talk. Instead, you talk about your dreams, hopes and fears, and he pretends to be really interested in getting to know the real you.