There is no doubt that technology today plays an essential role in maintaining our relationships. We are practically able to connect with anyone in the world at the touch of a button. And so it is quite normal for people to flirt with each other via text messages. This is how most relationships flourish today. Yes, people still go on regular dates and so on to get to know each other. But the way you communicate when you are not together also plays an important role in the development of a relationship.
The problem with text messages is that it is much more difficult to determine if someone likes you than if someone flirts with you personally. You can’t examine facial expressions or voice pitch when they send you a text message, so you can’t analyze them as closely. Fortunately, there are some signs that you can look for. Here are 13 things that he will text you if he likes you:
1. He’ll write you compliments.
He will always tell you how pretty you are and how attractive you are. He will always find ways to make you feel better through the text. He is interested in you and you should give him a chance. Entertain him for a while and let him know if you are excited too.
2. He will text you first.
He always enjoys talking to you and he doesn’t have to wait for you to send him a message. He has no problem swallowing his pride and being the one to text you first. He likes to be the first one to talk to you because he likes you.
3. He uses flirty emoticons.
If he uses the emoticons all the time with kisses and heart-eyes, then yes, he probably has a crush on you. Why would he use such flirty smiley face language if he doesn’t like you?
4. He’s expressing an interest in your life.
If he keeps asking you questions about your life, it means he’s really interested. He likes you and wants to get to know you better. You stimulate him emotionally and mentally. You have him in your power and he agrees to be on your leash.
5. He opens himself to you in relation to himself.
If he allows himself to be vulnerable to you, it is practically a telltale sign that he is attracted to you. He probably likes you so much that he will tell you everything you might want to know about him. He will also find himself in a place of security when he talks to you, so it is no problem for him to open up.
6. He uses perfect spelling and punctuation.
If he actually spends time and effort to perfect his spelling and punctuation when he talks to you, it means that he is trying to impress you. Sure, it could also mean that he’s just grammar avid, but either way, he’s telling you that you’re worth typing whole words and sentences.
7. He tells you jokes.
Every guy wants to be the funny guy. Every guy wants to be able to make his ladies laugh whenever they want. When he tries to make you laugh, he tries to make you lower your guard. He wants you to trust him with your feelings.
8. He says that he likes to talk to you.
When a man tells you that he likes to talk to you, he means it. It means that he wants to talk to you more often. He would talk to you all day if he could.
9. He asks you about your plans.
He wants to know your plans for the weekend because he wants to be a part of it. He is always looking for opportunities to be with you because he likes to spend time with you. He will try to ask you about your plans at the beginning of the week so that he can try to fit into your schedule.
10. Good morning and good night texts.
Good morning and good night texts are blatant attractions. If he regularly sends you Good Morning and Good Night texts, it means that he wants to be the first person you think of when you wake up and the last person you think of before you go to sleep.
11. He responds promptly to your texts.
If he does not take his time with his answers, then you know that he really likes you. A guy who is attracted to you does not wait hours or days to send you an answer. A man who is attracted to you will always try to send his answers promptly. He doesn’t want to keep you waiting.
12. He will try to extend your calls.
He loves talking to you and he always tries to find ways to extend your calls. He will ask you questions about your day, and he will raise all sorts of issues, just so that you don’t have a reason to say goodbye to each other yet.
13. He will text you when he is drunk.
You know what they say: alcohol is liquid courage. If he sends you a text message when he is drunk, it just means that the alcohol taps into his true desires.