1. It’s okay to fall, but you have to get up too.
All your life you will be faced with so many decisions, and some of them will not be the best for you.
But even if you fall and even if everything you have worked for collapses, you have to learn to get up, dust yourself off and move on.
Life is not about how often you fall, it’s about how often you get up with your head up.
2. People will disappoint you, but you have to live with it.
Over the course of your life, you will meet people with different profiles, and some of them will just want to take advantage of you. Some of them will be toxic while pretending to be your best friend.
And they will show you what it means to suffer and never want to trust anyone again. But whatever you do, don’t close your heart.
Just because one person hurt you doesn’t mean others will. Always keep your heart clean and pure – it is for your own good.
3. Love hurts, but it is up to you whether you accept it.
You will meet guys who just want to take advantage of you by pretending to love you. And I know you’ll fall in love with them because they’ll be masters of manipulation.
But what you have to remember is that once they hurt you, you can’t just give up. You have so much to offer, so don’t build walls around your heart, because you never know when the right one will come.
Do not close your heart, but make sure you open your eyes.
4. You are perfect just the way you are.
Just because some immature idiot has told you that you are not beautiful or hot enough doesn’t mean it is true. You are beautiful and unique just the way you are, and if someone can’t appreciate you because of what you offer, you don’t need them in your life.
Concentrate on your life, your happiness and your peace. Respect yourself so that others can respect you and never settle for less than you deserve.
5. Life is short, so live each day as if it were your last.
Do not save your new dress for a special occasion, because every new day you open your eyes is special enough. Don’t plan your life in advance, because you never know what God’s plan for you is.
Live your life to the fullest and let no one hold you back. Do not be like those women who, as they grow older, regret not living the life they wanted.
Do whatever makes you happy, but be careful not to hurt anyone in the process.
6. Don’t let a man take your independence away from you
It is nice to rely on a man in your life, but always show him that you are good on your own and that you do not need him to complete you. You are already completed, a perfectly designed force, and you do not need anyone to tell you that you are worthy or enough. You already know it, so don’t worry about a man. Don’t satisfy him just because you’re afraid he’ll leave. If he leaves, it means he’s not the right man. Be happy instead, because the right man is on his way to you.
7. You are responsible for your happiness
There is no person in this world who can make you happy because you are responsible for your happiness. When you feel comfortable in your own skin, people will realize this and you will only draw the good things into your life. And even if things are not the way you wanted them to be, don’t cry. Because if you cry, nothing will change. You’ll just have an ugly picture of yourself. Instead, stand up and fight for what’s yours, and if you want happiness, create it. You don’t even know what power is inside you.
8. Always listen to your gut
Women are blessed to have the so-called sixth sense, and you should use it as often as possible. If you believe that something is right and others disagree with you, listen to yourself. Because if you don’t try it your way, you will never know if it was the right choice or not. Listen to your heart and your conscience, because they will never let you down. And they never will.
9. Always have faith
You will face so many problems in your life, but you must believe that things will be good in the end. Because if they’re not good, it’s not the end. Don’t sweat the little things and don’t cry about your sad fate, because that won’t change anything. Be a warrior in every situation and believe that doing good things will pay off in the end. Listen to what others have to say, but always make your own decisions. At least you will know that you have messed up yourself.
10. Be responsible for your actions
You will make many bad decisions in your life, but the thing is that you have to stand behind each one of them. If you screw up, don’t make others pay. Correct the situation in the best way you can and always take responsibility for the things you do. You would not like others to put their problems on you, so do not do the same to them. Be strong and admit when you have made a mistake, but also do your best to save what can be saved.